When the unthinkable happens, families shouldn’t have to find us alone.Â
💙Â When a child dies, everything changes in an instant. In those first hours and days, families are in shock. They don’t know what to do next. They don’t know where to turn.
 And too often, they don’t know we exist.
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💙 The Compassionate Friends Victoria support over 500 families each month.  But many of them are finding us too late.  Weeks.  Months. Sometimes years after their loss. Â
 When what they needed most … was someone in those first days.Â
 We are Strengthening our First Response to Grief.
So we can:
💙 Reach families earlier.
💙 Work alongside hospitals and coronial services.Â
💙 Offer connection when it matters most. Â
Not later.  Earlier.Â
 This end of year, we are raising $20,000.Â
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Your donation doesn’t sit in a system — it reaches people.
- $25Â helps us connect with a newly bereaved family
- $50Â helps provide one-on-one peer support
- $100Â helps us follow up in those early weeks
- $250Â helps strengthen early referral pathways
- $500Â helps us reach multiple families sooner
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Every donation helps us be there earlier.Â
💙 The Compassionate Friends Victoria support over 500 families each month.  But many of them are finding us too late.  Weeks.  Months. Sometimes years after their loss. Â
When what they needed most … was someone in those first days.Â
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We know this work matters because we’ve lived it. Â
And we know how different it could have been if someone had reached out sooner.
Thank you for standing with us.Â
Loving messages from other donors
- I lost my son Gareth in 2014, the Compassionate Friends has helped me deal with this loss. I have also made new friends.
- In memory of my son Michael. Died 15th Oct 1995 aged 16. The yearly card I receive really means so much to me. Please buy some cards or stamps with this small donation. I wish it could be more. Much love Diane Johnson
- In memory of our son Ben and with thanks to TCF
- I would like to help other families in the same way that we were helped when we lost our son, Gregory, more than 17 years ago. Carmen Phelan
- In memory of Jarrod Yong and your care for our family
- Our workplace giving on behalf of Wendy Quick
- Hi Team Good Luck with the Winter Solstice Event Sorry I can't make it - In Loving Memory of James
- In memory of my son Gareth J. Crawford for giving Tuesday.
- DONATION TO TRAVIA NIGHT IN LOVING MEMORY OF JAMES MARCON
- A space to feel safe and understood during the moments of hopelessness is something that we all should have.
- To my loving son Chris, he will forever be in our hearts and memories.
- In memory of our beautiful daughter, Kelly Theobald, who passed away on 2nd October 2015. Forever in our hearts.
- A donation on behalf of Mercy Health for all the good work that you do.
- In memory of Mark - I've had so much loving support from TCF since Mark died in February 2008. Thank you.
- Valuable services to people in real need - fantastic work.
- I have experienced what your "clients/friends" have experienced and would have welcomed the support and friendship your organisation offers. I am so glad you are there for others now. Very good wishes
- In fond memory of Nancy Wicking
- remembering all our beautiful children
- In memory of Oliver Judd
- After my Daughter died I searched for information to make sense of what was going on in my life. Search for ideas to lessen the pain. I felt alone and abounded but Compassion friends sent out much useful information for me to learn to cope with life once again and to know that someone cares and knows what I'm going through.
- In loving memory of Mark
- In memory of Oliver Judd
- in memory of Alexander and Leina.
- In loving memory of my Granddaughter Valentina De Luca. Merry Christmas my Angel .. Love Grandma
- Thanks a million!!
- My heart goes out to every bereaved parent in the world. To live with the loss of a child is the hardest thing you will ever have to do, but "Friends" make the load a little lighter. With all my love and prayers. ....Cathy
- Happy Birthday Valentina from Grandma and Grand dad
- Thank you Andrew for your help. Am looking forward to receiving the copy of the Creedo. My friend will love it.
- A donation in memory of a gorgeous little angel, Maya Quteifan who was taken far to soon. Her smile and laughter brightened the room. She was and will always be loved by many. She will forever be in our hearts and memories!
- In memory of James
Download and print this form and send through the post to:
TCFÂ Victoria.
P.O. Box 171
CANTERBURY Â VICÂ 3126
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Key Areas of Expenditure
- Funding the Grief Helpline
- Covering the cost of sending a care package to a newly bereaved family
- Providing specialist training for support group facilitators and Helpline phone answerers
- The purchasing and sending costs of anniversary cards to ensure a child or sibling is never forgotten
Are donations tax deductible?
Yes, a receipt will be sent to you immediately by email when approved.
The Compassionate Friends Victoria is endorsed as a deductible gift recipient Item 1 of the table in section 30-15 of the Income Tax Assessment Act
